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Ever Wanted to Ask a Nonbinary Person About their Gender?

Frequently Asked Questions — the Nonbinary Edition

Rhian Beam
4 min readFeb 17, 2020
Image Credit to Laurie Raye, They/Them

Below are some commonly asked questions from Cisgender folks. Some questions answered and some not because we don’t ‘have’ to explain our gender or lack thereof to anyone, but I love spreading knowledge. These are my personal answers as I understand things and they don’t represent the whole community.

Q: What is Nonbinary?

A: What is the meaning of life? Being Nonbinary is everything and nothing all at once. It’s the feeling of being in-between, lack thereof, or added on top of something. Someone who is Nonbinary could be Agender, Bi-gender, Demi-gender, Genderfluid, or a Nonbinary girl or boy, as well as many others. Nonbinary means not completely in the strict binary of man or woman.

Q: That makes no sense.

A: That’s not a question.

Q: This is awkward but, what’s….down there?

A: Why would you ask someone that? No, really I wanna know.

Q: Isn’t Nonbinary a ‘Trend’?

A: Just because something is being recognized in the western world as something that exists and is valid does not make it…

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Rhian Beam
Rhian Beam

Written by Rhian Beam

Nonbinary Autistic Blogger, Cat Parental Unit. Pronouns: They/Ze. Former Writer for Thi-nk Queerly-RIP. I write about my queer cryptid experience.

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